4/23/11

Ways of dealing with yourself

Ways of dealing with yourself


First, manage yourself and deal effectively with yourself.
2-Mend the relationship between you and God
3-Optimism and hope your mind to expect success
4-Make your goals specific and illustrated
5-Start to put plans of the different things of  your life and stay away from chaos.
6-Around your plans in achieving your goals into concrete action
7-Preserve for your time and do not lost your time
8-Organize your life
9-Do not run away from the business and the task Avenue
10-You must have the values ​​and principles in this life and make them the basis of your life
11-Faced business results and actions
12-Do not make your personality always definite and not always Mysterious
13-Be happy and stay away from sad

Success Habits

Success Habits

Success is the result of good decisions and habits

The successful focus on what is positive and assume the negative

The successful does not circulate things,he is pay attention to the words used and not distributed the Charges randomly, because he is affect around

The successful does not follow  his emotions,he knows it should not be the only engine of its decisions.
The decision  should move the emotions and to succeed in achieving your goals should be linked between emotions and the mind.

The successful  is social effective way ,he is not a social nature, but he understands the importance of social relationships and communicate with others and also understood the importance of time so he does not lost his time on social events often
He invests his time with someone who may help him and benefit from him.

Self-confidence

Self-confidence


Is the sense of a person values himself
 he is deal with others in nature, without fear or dread he knows he is only who control of himself and judge himself, not others
how to overcome negative feelings?
Negative and frustration are the result of thought and thinking negative,Thought and thinking negative urges  fear and weakness,and repeated failures and depression and repeated excuses and pessimism and introversion

There are negative people think they need a better place and a higher level, without effort or fatigue
He is trying to convince himself it is complete and everyone against him and fight him

I believe that education has a role in building the human personality and to identify goals

person must be positive in any case, whatever the Conditions


Negative person


1-Look at the Negatives of society and not look at the positives
2-Feel that everyone is against him
3-Always expect the worst
4-Fear of the future and the failure
5-he is not to accept dialogue with others
6-Negative and the convergence and thus the loss of hope, stress and fear.


How to become a positive person?
1-Be optimistic and always suffer  yourself on everything.
2-Be realistic and think carefully before making decisions
3-Talked positively about yourself and always remember the good qualities
4-Be a believer that everything happens for a reason and it is good for you
5-Stop thinking some time and enjoy life.


4/22/11

There is no failure, but there are results and experiences

There is no failure, but there are results and experiences

You must look to the challenges of life as you learn new lessons in order to be able to achieve your goals and that whatever you did not achieve your goals at the moment, you have a wonderful experience will enable you to achieve your goals later

Every person being has in his past experience and great expertise can be traced back to it and recalls benefit to improve his lifestyle



Respect and accept others as they are

  Respect and accept others as they are

Some people try to change the other to be as they want,and get very disappointed because every person being has a set of values and beliefs and your own capacity, which enables it to act in a certain.

So you have to respect the other person as he is, do not criticize or compare his actions with the others, and not try to make changes in order to receive Admire.
Do not get angry when you can not change others because you actually find it difficult to change yourself.


So then your understanding is correct for this principle and work will avoid many problems and negative feelings and you will increase your skills and your ability to communicate with others and will have the love and respect for people



Presuppositions of NLP

Presuppositions of NLP


1-Respect and accept others as they are
2-Every man has in the history of his past all the possibilities that it needs to accomplish positive change in his life.
3- People use the best choice for them within the means available at the moment.
4- Behind every behavior there is the positive intention.
5-Every human being has two levels of communication:Conscious,Unconscious
6- There is no failure, but there are results and experiences.
7-The most flexible person can control things.
8-Mind and body affect each other in some way.
9-If any person being able to do anything it could be any other person being to learn and do this thing.
10-I control my mind, then I am responsible for my actions results.

what is NLP?

NLP

It Is the art and science of the human being to reach a degree of excellence, which it can achieve its goals and always raises the level of his life

Programming
 
 
Is the set of ideas, feelings, and actions resulting from the habits and experiences which affect our contacts with others and ourselves are and it goes our way of life and this can be changed
 
Language
 
Refers to our ability to use language, either by words or phrases specific or without any words and through the silent language expressed by the conditions of the body such as the meeting, the stance, gestures and signals and also the facial expressions that reveal our thinking styles and beliefs
 
Neural
 
Refers to our nervous system to the mental attitude which includes the five senses see, hear and feel and taste and smell
 
 
 
So, NLP is our ability to use the language of the mind positive strategy will enable us to achieve the goals of our lives.
 
 
 
 
 

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